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Beata

Grown Women - a piece of an e-mail I received from Gosik. Thanx a lot!
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>Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make
>plans.
>Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where
>he fits.
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>Girls want to control the man in their life.
>Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
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>Girls check you for not calling them.
>Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.
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>Girls are afraid to be alone.
>Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.
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>Girls ignore the good guys.
>Grown women ignore the bad
>guys.
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>Girls make you come home.
>Grown women make you want to come home.
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>Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
>Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
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>Girls try to monopolize all their man's time ( i.e., don't want him hanging
>with his friends).
>Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even
>more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.
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>Girls think a guy crying is weak.
>Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
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>Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
>Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate
>without fear of losing his 'manhood'.
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>Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
>Grown women know that that was just one man.
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>Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection,
>ignoring all 'signs'.
>Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, doesn't always love you
>back-and move on, without bitterness.
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>Girls will read this and get an attitude.
>Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their
>male friends.
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>Do not go where the path may lead, go instead, where there is no path and
>leave a trail.'
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>Send this to any understanding female, and most importantly to those very,
>very understanding males...
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>WHICH ARE YOU?
>A Girl or GROWN WOMAN
>Hmmmm?

Confused

I wish we were all grown, clever and self-respectful. I wish men saw in us grown women and supported in `leaving trails where there is no path`...